Saturday, June 5, 2010

Tips for Reviving the Passion in Your Relationship

Posted by Meghan at 11:37 AM
By George Wood
and Meghan Cooper

Many couples feel that their relationship starts to lose its passion after sometime. This is mostly because of the fact that they don’t try anything new and feel that they have become bored of everything. You begin to settle into a daily life routine, get up, drop children off, go to work, come home, eat dinner put kids to bed, relax on couch. What they need to know is that variety is very important for a healthy and passionate relationship. This article will help you discover some of the ways to re-ignite passion in your relationship and re-discover the excitement of being committed.

There could be many ways by which you can spend some quality time together to indulge in romantic activities you have long forgotten. Plan a weekend getaway to some quiet and beautiful place. Spend sometime walking and holding each other’s hands. Talking things out and sorting ways to ease tension also helps to bring two people intimately closer to each other.

Another way to re-awaken passion is to plan something adventurous together. Your partner might be a little afraid of skiing, snorkeling, horse riding, free falling and other activities, but this could be a way to overcome their fright. Take them to all the places you two would love to be in. Tell them it’s nothing to be afraid of and that the two of you can achieve anything together.

If you like to stay at home then plan something new each day. You can go out for a romantic dinner or just for a little stroll down the lane. Ask your partner what they want to do on a particular evening. If you like movies; watch a few movies together and make your partner comfortable by making them their favorite meals and doing little chores for them. Another way to revive passion is to buy small gifts for your partner to express your love in a different way.

There is also the age old trick of introducing toys into your relationship. You can read more about that here.

Always try to be closer to your partner wherever you are. Whether it’s the living room, kitchen or bedroom don’t wait for a chance to hold your partner’s hand or kiss them lightly. Just do it whenever you feel like it. Be spontaneous and don’t think that they would not like it. Everyone wants to love and be loved in return. If you will be open with your partner, your partner is sure to open up after a few loving gestures from your side. Tell them how beautiful they really are and how much you love them, no matter what the occasion is. Don’t hesitate to express your true feelings.

Spending time with kids and playing games with them all day long and then making them go to bed so that the two of you can spend sometime together is also a way to re-discover the passion in your relationship. Your children complement your relationship. If you do something touching for your children, your partner is going to be touched by it too.

Another way to re-ignite passion is to plan some date nights like the way you used to. Visit places you loved to visit before and have spent great times there. Pure Romance developed a wonder Date Night game to help bring passion back into your relationship. It opens up the lines on communication along with giving you the chance to learn something about your partner you may not have known. There are also other games we offer that are fun to play, along with spicing things up. Take some time to get ready and pay attention to your appearance. If you feel sexy it will radiate a self confidence that is very attracting to a man. Also appreciate your partner on their appearance and the way they look.

Be spontaneous, some men are turned off by the thought of "scheduling" alone time, or date nights. For couples that have children this is much harder. But perhaps you can schedule the babysitter and then let things pan out from there.  

Try these simple methods and see what an uplifting effect they have on your relationship.

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